I used to think it was important to have common interests with the person that you are in a relationship with but now I think it is more important to be similar in other aspects. like how kind you are. how you treat the people you care about, how you treat strangers. how you deal with anger. how you deal with pain. and not necessarily dealing with all these things the same way but being perceptive enough to understand what action each situation calls for. it’s important for both people to be on the same page about what that action should be. it’s important to me to have that kind of synchrony.
Mh I know this is controversial but can I just say that people who genuinely questioned their sexuality only to realize they’re straight exist and we aren’t homophobic or closeted gays or bigots
Accepting questioning people means accepting all the possible answers to that question without the threat of ostracization or other punishment if their answer isn’t something you like.
